How to Determine If You Need a Butler

Hiring a formally trained butler can elevate the level of service and sophistication in your household. Consider these scenarios to determine if you need a butler: If you have a large home that requires meticulous attention to detail and management, a butler can ensure everything runs smoothly. For those who frequently entertain guests, a butler can handle all aspects of hospitality, from planning and coordinating events to silver service dinners. Additionally, if you desire a high level of personal service, a butler can attend to your daily needs, offering a seamless and luxurious experience.

    • 35 hours per week or more, starting at hourly rates of $40+

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How Can a MHM Butler Help?

A MHM (My Household Managed) butler brings exceptional skill and dedication to the management of your household. They ensure the smooth operation of daily activities, maintain high standards of cleanliness and organization, and provide personalized service to meet your specific needs. A MHM butler excels in hospitality, expertly managing events, greeting guests, and overseeing their comfort. They are proficient in modern technology, which enhances their efficiency in managing household operations. Additionally, their extensive training includes etiquette, protocol, and the ability to handle various tasks such as valeting, basic cooking, and overseeing household security.

What Services Does a MHM Butler Provide?

A MHM butler offers a broad range of services to ensure your household operates at its best. A formally trained butler may be responsible for:

  • Overseeing household operations and staff

  • Managing schedules and maintenance

  • Providing hospitality (greeting guests, serving beverages, silver service, turndown service)

  • Running personal errands

  • Managing wardrobes (ironing, repairs, organization)

  • Perform valeting and basic cooking

  • Pet care (feeding, walking, vet appointments)

  • Plant care & floral arrangements

  • Daily home walk-throughs

  • Coordinating contractors and vendors

  • Planning and overseeing social events

  • Driving principals and handle travel logistics

  • Handling phones, messages, deliveries, and guests

How Much Does a MHM Butler Cost

The cost of hiring a MHM butler varies based on several factors, including their experience, the location of your household, and the specific services required. Butlers with extensive experience and specialized skills may command higher salaries. Additionally, rates can vary depending on the cost of living in different areas. The scope of services and the level of personalized attention you require will also impact the cost. Butlers typically draw a comfortable salary for their talents, ranging from $80,000 to $200,000 annually.

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What is the Difference Between a House Manager and a Butler?

A house manager can be considered a modern day butler. Both play crucial roles in maintaining a well-run household, but their responsibilities differ significantly. A house manager primarily focuses on the overall management and administration of a traditional home. They oversee staff, manage budgets, coordinate maintenance, and ensure the household runs efficiently. Their role is more strategic, dealing with the broader aspects of household management ranging from of single families homes to mansions.

In contrast, a butler must be formally trained from an accredited butler school and is more hands-on with day-to-day operations, personal service, and hospitality. While they also supervise household staff, their duties are more focused on white glove service and ensuring guests' comfort in multimillion-dollar estates. A butler is often involved in tasks such as serving meals, managing the pantry, and attending to the personal needs of the household members. Essentially, a house manager ensures the household functions smoothly from a managerial perspective, while a formally trained butler provides a high level of hospitality, serving as a right hand to their Principals.

What Are the Qualifications to Become a Butler

What Are the Qualifications to Become a Butler?

A qualified butler has formal training from reputable butler schools or hospitality programs, often accompanied by relevant certification. They possess prior experience in hospitality or private households, showcasing hands-on skills in housekeeping, cooking, and event planning. Key attributes include attention to detail, discretion, organizational and interpersonal skills, problem-solving abilities, and adaptability. Professionalism, loyalty, patience, and physical stamina are essential, as is proficiency with household management software and basic IT. Additional valuable skills include multilingual abilities, driving competence, expertise in silver service, and proficiency in white glove service. Silver service involves elegantly serving food from silver platters with precision and etiquette, while white glove service denotes the highest level of personalized care and attention to detail. Together, these qualifications ensure a butler can effectively manage and enhance the operations of a luxury household.

Why Work With My Household Managed to Hire a Butler?

My Household Managed is a professional domestic staffing agency that specializes in helping busy families and high net worth individuals hire exceptional household employees. Rooted in hospitality with over 15 years of industry experience, we know what to look for in the ideal formally trained butler. We are a trusted and reliable company that you can count on to take care of your unique household needs. We offer a wide range of domestic staffing services, and we will work with you to find the perfect butler for your household, including a custom butler job description tailored to your requirements.

How Do I Get Started with MHM?

If you are interested in finding a butler through MHM, your first step is to fill out a client registration form. This will allow our team to learn a little more about your needs. Once we receive your registration, a member of our team will be in touch with you personally. You can fill out your registration form here.


My Household Managed is a leading butler agency in Chicago, Palm Beach, and Miami. 

We’re here to help you find the perfect butler for your residence. Our extensive screening and interview process provides our clients with an added level of security and reassurance that their families and households will be in great hands. 

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