——- CHICAGO, ILLINOIS
Chicago’s Domestic Staffing Agency
Placing private service professionals in Chicago's Gold Coast, Lincoln Park, North Shore, and beyond, with the depth of local knowledge that only comes from being here.
GOLD COAST
LINCOLN PARK
LAKEVIEW
RIVER NORTH
STREETERVILLE
WINNETKA
LAKE FOREST
GLENCOE
BARRINGTON HILLS
HINSDALE
NAPERVILLE
GOLD COAST LINCOLN PARK LAKEVIEW RIVER NORTH STREETERVILLE WINNETKA LAKE FOREST GLENCOE BARRINGTON HILLS HINSDALE NAPERVILLE
GOLD COAST
LAKEVIEW
LAKE FOREST
LINCOLN PARK
RIVER NORTH
GLENCOE
BARRINGTON HILLS
WINNETKA
Why Chicago Families and Estates Trust My Household Managed
Families and executives across Chicago's North Shore, Lincoln Park, Gold Coast, and Winnetka trust My Household Managed for discreet, professional domestic staffing — from nannies and housekeepers to estate managers and private chefs.
As a private household staffing firm led by a Chicago native with over 15 years of private service experience, we bring rare local insight and national reach to every search.
Chicago’s most prominent households operate with precision. Between primary residences, lake houses, demanding professional schedules, and public visibility, the margin for error is small. My Household Managed specializes in long-term private household placements designed for discretion, operational stability, and cultural alignment.
“After working with other domestic staffing agencies, I can confidently say My Household Managed stands apart. Alison exceeded my high standards for hiring private household staff and delivered an exceptional long-term placement.”
– ULTRA-HIGH-NET-WORTH CLIENT, CHICAGO’S GOLD OAST
—— OUR APPROACH
A Structured Approach to Private Household Staffing
Selecting private staff is not a transactional hire. It is an operational decision that directly shapes how your home functions. We act as advisors throughout the process.
01
Uncompromising Discretion
Confidentiality is built into every stage of our process — from your initial consultation through placement and beyond. Every candidate understands the privacy standards expected in Chicago's most prominent private households.
02
Personalized Consultations
Before we ever present a candidate, we take the time to understand your household from the inside out — your family's rhythms, values, non-negotiables, and long-term goals. We're not just filling a role; we're helping you build a household team that works.
03
Strategic Placement
With deep roots in Chicago's private service community, we only work with the top 3% of professionals in the field. Our guidance doesn't stop at introductions; we advise on compensation benchmarks, navigate interviews, and support onboarding.
—— WHAT WE PLACE
Chicago Domestic & Estate Staffing Services
Every professional we place is someone we'd recommend to our own family.
Private Chef
|
Personal Assistant
|
Chauffer
|
Governess
|
+ More
|
Private Chef | Personal Assistant | Chauffer | Governess | + More |
|
|
|
|
—— HOW WE WORK
Strategic Household Staffing for Chicago's Most Private Homes
Chicago families choose MHM because we understand the operational rhythm of private homes — from Lincoln Park condominiums to North Shore estates and lakefront properties.
01
We Listen First
Together, we outline a path forward that’s realistic, strategic, and tailored to your specific needs.
We Do the Vetting You Shouldn't Have To
02
Screening household staff in Chicago requires more than a background check. We conduct comprehensive interviews, verify references personally, and assess for the discretion that private household roles demand.
03
We Guide You to the Right Direction
We walk alongside you through candidate introductions, interviews, offer negotiation, and onboarding — acting as your advocate at every turn to ensure the placement is right for your household, not just on paper.
Built for Long-Term Stability
Our placements are structured for longevity, not convenience. Rushed placements result in turnover. Structured searches focused on alignment lead to stability.
3%
OF CANDIDATES ACCEPTED INTO OUR NETWORK
15+
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE WORKING WITH CHICAGO FAMILIES
"Alison provided exceptional service during our Chicago House Manager search. My executive had very specific requirements, and My Household Managed delivered beyond expectations. We hired an outstanding candidate after just three interviews."
- EXECUTIVE ASSISTANT, CHICAGO
We regularly partner with family offices, executive assistants, and wealth advisory teams entrusted with managing private household and estate operations for their principals.
—— COMMON QUESTIONS
Chicago Household Staffing FAQs
Everything you need to know before beginning your household staffing search.
-
Hiring household staff in Chicago begins with clearly defining the role, schedule, and level of responsibility required within your private home. Many families underestimate the importance of role structure, compensation alignment, and long-term expectations. Working with a specialized private household staffing agency ensures candidates are vetted for discretion, judgment, and cultural alignment — not simply availability. A structured search process typically includes consultation, recruitment, screening, interviews, and work agreement guidance.
-
We work exclusively with private households — high-net-worth and ultra-high-net-worth families, executives, principals, and family offices managing residential properties in Chicago and beyond. We are not a commercial or corporate staffing agency. Our focus is the private home, and that specialization is what allows us to deliver placements at the level our clients expect.
-
A nanny agency focuses exclusively on childcare. A private household staffing agency in Chicago advises on multiple in-home roles — including housekeepers, house managers, estate managers, personal assistants, private chefs, and butlers — and understands how those roles intersect operationally. The scope is broader and more advisory in nature.
-
In a private Chicago residence, a housekeeper focuses primarily on deep cleaning, laundry, and maintaining the home's physical interior standards. A house manager operates at a higher operational level, overseeing vendors, schedules, household systems, staff coordination, and sometimes event support. Larger North Shore estates or high profile Chicago homes with high standards of service often require a managerial role to maintain structure and continuity. Choosing the correct title and scope is critical for long-term success.
-
A nanny's primary focus is the care, development, and daily routine of your children — including school runs, activities, meals, and education support. A household manager oversees the broader operations of your home, managing vendors, staff schedules, household budgets, and day-to-day logistics. Some Chicago families hire both; others find a candidate with hybrid skills who can handle elements of both roles. During your consultation, we help you identify which role — or combination — best fits your household's actual needs.
-
Compensation for private household staff in Chicago varies based on experience, scope of responsibility, and schedule. All household employees — including housekeepers, nannies, house managers, and estate managers — are hourly workers subject to overtime under Illinois and federal labor law. In addition to hourly wages, legally compliant household employment includes payroll taxes, overtime pay, and industry-standard benefits such as guaranteed hours and paid time off. My Household Managed advises clients on current market rates during the consultation process to ensure compensation is structured correctly from the start.
-
Nanny compensation in Chicago varies depending on experience, schedule, and scope of responsibilities. Full-time nannies in Chicago's high-net-worth households typically earn between $30–$50+ per hour, with travel or rotational nannies commanding higher rates to reflect the additional demands of increased scheduling flexibility and accompanying families on domestic and international travel. My Household Managed advises clients on current market compensation during the consultation process to ensure your offer is competitive enough to attract top-tier private service talent. Agency placement fees are separate and discussed during your initial consultation.
-
All household employees in Chicago must legally be classified as W-2 employees, not independent contractors. This includes nannies, housekeepers, house managers, and other domestic staff working in a private residence. Proper classification protects both the employer and employee and ensures compliance with Illinois and federal labor laws. Families are advised to work with a household payroll provider to manage tax withholding, filings, and reporting.
-
A thoughtful household staffing search in Chicago typically takes four to six weeks depending on role complexity, your schedule, and the specificity of your requirements. Leadership roles such as estate managers or highly specialized positions — a bilingual governess, for example — may require additional time due to the selective candidate pool. We prioritize quality over speed and will always advise you honestly about realistic timelines at the start of your search. Rushed placements often result in turnover; structured searches focused on alignment lead to greater stability.
-
Yes. Many Chicago family offices oversee private residences and are tasked with hiring house managers, estate managers, butlers, personal assistants, and domestic staff. In these cases, staffing decisions often require coordination between principals, advisors, and operational leadership to ensure role clarity and long-term alignment.
-
Direct hiring can work for some households, but families who engage a specialized agency typically do so because the stakes are too high to leave the process unstructured. A private household staffing agency provides access to passive, off-market candidates who are not applying to job boards, alongside rigorous vetting, direct reference verification, and market compensation guidance. For high-profile Chicago households where discretion and long-term stability are non-negotiable, the screening process and confidentiality protections a specialist firm provides are often the primary reason families choose not to hire independently.
-
Private household staffing is most common in Chicago's Gold Coast, Lincoln Park, Lakeview, and River North, as well as along the North Shore in Winnetka, Glencoe, Highland Park, Lake Forest, and Kenilworth. Many of the families we work with also maintain secondary residences, lake properties, or seasonal homes that require coordinated staffing support across multiple locations. If your primary or secondary residence falls outside these areas, we're happy to advise on whether your search falls within our network.
——TRUSTED PARTNERS
Recommended Chicago Backup Childcare & Babysitting Services
Even the most well-staffed household occasionally needs last-minute childcare support. Below are babysitting and backup care companies we trust and recommend to Chicago families looking for vetted, reliable coverage when your regular household staff is unavailable.
K Grace Childcare
A Chicago-based childcare placement agency serving families since 2002, K. Grace specializes in part-time, flexible, and backup babysitting referrals. Their rigorous screening process and personalized approach make them a trusted resource for families who need reliable, qualified childcare on a customized schedule.
Chicago Super Sitters
Chicago Super Sitters is a boutique babysitting agency known for its hands-on, human-first matching process. Every sitter is personally selected for your family and all undergo background checks, reference verification, and CPR validation. Ideal for one-time bookings, recurring part-time care, hotel stays, or last-minute backup childcare needs.
—— FROM OUR BLOG
Expert Advice for Today's Private Households
Our expertise extends beyond Chicago. Find our domestic staffing services in other cities.
Proudly Serving South Florida’s Premier Household: Palm Beach | Miami | Wellington | Jupiter | Boca Raton

